Love Across Languages: Conquering Communication Barriers
Sparks may be the easiest to find in this kind of relationship, but making sure that you can get what the other person really means without language barrier takes tons of effort on a first date. Fear not, lovebirds! Through a little imagination and a lot of a patience you can cross that language threshold once and for all.
Embrace the Power of Non-Verbal Communication
A smile is the world's language that all people understand. Make use of your body language such as the movement of hands, facial expressions, and postures to portray your emotions. Humorous hints, bright smiles and friendly eye to eye contact can work just as effectively as words.
Tech is Your Friend
There are dozens of translation apps you can use in order to communicate at basic level. Although they cannot give the full picture of a language, they can, nonetheless, help a lot in understanding menus, asking questions, and getting common phrases right.
Learn Together, Grow Together
Convert the process of learning your language into a source of joyful experience for both of you! Learn together by enrolling in a class, or simply spend an hour a day to teach each other everyday vocabulary.
Think in Pictures
A picture is equal to thousand of words, so try to get visuals added to your communication channel. Switch to photos of your childhood, smiley faces to depict how you feel, or make some funny doodles to increase the effectiveness of your conversation.
Focus on Shared Activities
Deeds speak louder than words sometimes. Find unconventional “hangout” ideas that go further beyond the typical chit-chats. Sharing the kitchen when cooking together, going to a museum or learn dancing will not only help to gain some extra language skills but also help you communicate at non-verbal level.
Embrace the Humor
There will be very funny mistranslations and all kinds of embarrassing moments. Learn to laugh at them together! After all, a good laugh is a powerful bond in any relationship.
Dating someone who belongs to a different culture could be extremely enriching, especially when you learn to turn the language barrier issue into a wonderful trip. With a little effort, patience, and a whole lot of love, you'll be surprised at how strong your connection can become, one word (or gesture) at a time!